Marriage Repair?

http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Marriage-Repair-Kit

In this article by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt one will learn that all people look for a life partner similar to those who cared for them as a child, despite the fact that the people who nurture you as you grow up leave the biggest emotional wounds. At first these people seem appealing due to their different way to problem solve but soon one sees faults in their once perfect lover. Once these faults are seen the romantic love that once bonded the two people is meant to transform into a care that will help them focus on healing each other's wounds. Often times people have a hard time trying to heal and help others heal and resort to leaving but leaving will not solve the problem often times if the other person is willing to work with you because you will continually attract people with faults you grew up seeing.